In the latest twist of royal tales, Meghan and Harry have left no stone unturned in dishing out their personal experiences post-royal exit. With the release of Harry’s eye-opening memoir “Spare” and their gripping Netflix docuseries, the couple has once again captured the public’s fascination.
The revelations range from the heart-wrenching moment Harry learned of his mother, Princess Diana’s tragic demise, to the intricate dynamics and conflicts within the walls of Buckingham Palace. Each disclosure offers a peek into their lives, shrouded in both privilege and scrutiny.
Their boldness in sharing these intimate details has sparked conversations worldwide. Whether it’s the sorrow of a young prince or the internal skirmishes of palace life, Meghan and Harry have provided a treasure trove of surprising insights, ensuring that our eyebrows remain perennially raised.
Meghan’s “Baby Brain” Remark Stirs Tension
At a dinner that Prince Harry describes, a casual remark made by Meghan Markle about Kate Middleton having “baby brain” because of her pregnancy resulted in an awkward moment. This comment led to a tense exchange, revealing the delicate nature of relationships within the royal family.
Kate’s pointed reply about the comment being an inappropriate reference to her hormones, along with Prince William’s emphasis on British propriety, highlights the intense sensitivity and intricate dynamics among the royals. This episode offers a glimpse into the sometimes tense and complicated interactions between family members.
The Truth Behind Harry and William’s Best Man Saga
Prince Harry reveals in his memoir that, despite what was publicly shared, he and Prince William didn’t actually take on the role of best man at each other’s weddings. This disclosure points out a significant departure from the official story shared by royal communications, aimed at meeting the expectations of the public.
The choice not to have Harry as William’s best man appears to have been driven by concerns over Harry’s speeches possibly being unpredictable. Harry noticed William acting strangely on his (Harry’s) wedding day, which might indicate William’s regret over not fulfilling the traditional best man duties, adding complexity to the brothers’ relationship.
Harry and William’s Opposition to King Charles’s Marriage
Prince Harry and Prince William were against their father, King Charles, marrying Camilla, adding tension to the royal family’s story. They were worried about how the public and the media would react, considering Camilla’s past relationship with Charles and Princess Diana.
Harry especially was concerned about bringing back comparisons between Diana and Camilla, which he thought would upset people and be unfair to everyone, including Camilla. This situation shows the complicated mix of personal emotions and how the public sees the royal family.
Harry Points Finger at Press for Stress-Induced Miscarriage
Harry blames the media for the stress that led to Meghan’s miscarriage in 2020. In the documentary, a moving segment shows Meghan talking about their loss soon after moving into their new home, highlighting how constant media attention affected them.
Though there’s no direct proof, Harry is convinced that the stress from non-stop media coverage contributed significantly to their miscarriage. This claim points to the deep personal impact of being in the public eye and questions the media’s influence on public figures’ lives.
Duchess Meghan Labeled a “Foreign Organism” by Palace Staff
In a surprising revelation from within the royal walls, a veteran staff member likened newcomers like Duchess Meghan to “foreign organisms,” suggesting a challenging adjustment period for both the family and its new additions. This comment, intended as reassurance, reflects the complex dynamics of integrating into the royal family.
Despite the startling metaphor, the staffer’s words were meant to offer hope for eventual acceptance and harmony. Meghan herself held onto this hope, longing for the day when the royal family would fully embrace her as one of their own, illustrating the nuanced journey of becoming a royal.
Harry and William’s Clash Over Meghan Turns Physical
Harry reveals in his memoir a shocking moment from 2019 when a heated argument with William over Meghan’s treatment escalated dramatically. The disagreement, sparked by William’s criticisms of Meghan as being “rude” and “difficult,” quickly turned physical, with William shoving Harry to the ground.
Despite the intensity of the altercation, Harry chose not to retaliate. He describes how William, after the confrontation, appeared regretful and even asked Harry to keep the incident from Meghan, highlighting the complex emotions and tensions within the royal family.
Harry Claims His Father’s PR Team Cast Him as the Rebel to Win Sympathy for Charles
Prince Harry opens up in his memoir about the notorious reputation he once had, admitting to youthful experiments with substances. However, he casts a shadow of doubt on his father’s PR team, suspecting they exploited these stories to contrast Harry’s image with Charles’s, possibly aiming to garner public sympathy for the latter.
Reflecting on those turbulent times, Harry sees them as a pivotal period where he was perhaps unwittingly manipulated for the palace’s narrative. Yet, he also acknowledges that these experiences offered him a unique perspective on life, beyond the royal family’s traditional boundaries.
The Queen Insisted William Attended Harry’s Bachelor Party
Prince Harry reveals a fascinating detail about his bachelor party in his memoir. Prince William was hesitant to attend at first, citing the recent birth of his child as the reason. But things changed after William had tea with the Queen.
After talking with the Queen, William decided to join Harry’s bachelor party for dinner, though he chose not to stay overnight. This was a different approach compared to Harry, who had fully participated in William’s bachelor party. This story highlights the balance between personal responsibilities and royal duties.
Prince Harry Reveals William and Kate’s Role in Nazi Costume Decision
In a candid revelation from Prince Harry, he discusses the controversy surrounding his choice of a Nazi costume for a “native and colonial” themed party in 2005. Surprisingly, he attributes the decision to wear the contentious outfit to advice from his brother, Prince William, and William’s then-girlfriend, Kate Middleton, highlighting a lapse in judgment that would stir significant backlash today.
Despite the ensuing scandal, Harry shares that he found unexpected support within his family, particularly from his brother and father. He initially doubted their motives, suspecting a play for favorable public relations, but was ultimately moved by the genuine concern and empathy they expressed towards him during the fallout.
The Truth Behind the Pre-Wedding Tears of Meghan and Kate
The narrative surrounding who made whom cry in the lead-up to Meghan’s wedding has been a point of contention, fueled by conflicting tabloid stories. Meghan Markle herself corrected the widely circulated tale during an interview with Oprah, asserting that, contrary to reports, it was Kate who had brought her to tears, not the other way around. Prince Harry’s memoir lends support to Meghan’s account, detailing a stressful exchange over the fit of Kate’s daughter’s bridesmaid dress.
Harry recounts how Kate’s insistence on altering the dress escalated the tension between the two women, culminating in Meghan being overwhelmed to the point of tears. Despite efforts to resolve the matter amicably, with Meghan suggesting a tailor could adjust the dress, the situation underscored the intense pressures and emotional stakes involved in royal wedding preparations.
Prince Harry Discusses the Impact of His Military Service in Afghanistan
Prince Harry’s memoir sheds light on his time in the Afghan conflict, revealing he was involved in the deaths of 25 Taliban fighters. This admission comes with a nuanced perspective, as he shares feelings of neither satisfaction nor shame over the number, underscoring the dehumanization training soldiers undergo for combat.
The disclosure has sparked significant controversy, attracting criticism from UK military circles and a Taliban spokesman who condemned Harry’s actions as war crimes. This situation has stirred a debate on the moral complexities of military engagement and the psychological toll on those who serve.
Prince Harry Opens Up About His First Time and Why He Wishes He Hadn’t
Prince Harry shares a very personal story in his memoir, talking about his first time with a woman and why he regrets it. He doesn’t say who she was, only that she was older and liked horseback riding. The encounter happened quickly in a field behind a pub, and it ended awkwardly, leaving Harry feeling uncomfortable about the whole experience.
He calls this moment an “inglorious episode” in his life, sparking curiosity and likely lots of guesses from readers about who the woman might be. Harry’s honest reflection adds a relatable depth to his public persona, showing a side of him many can understand.
Prince Harry Talks About His Dad’s Awkward Jokes
Prince Harry reveals in his book how his dad, King Charles III, would joke about Harry’s real dad being someone else, like Major James Hewitt, because of the rumors in the newspapers. Charles made light of the situation with jokes about not being sure if he was Harry’s real father.
Harry didn’t find these jokes funny, especially since the rumors were all over the news at the time. He shares how strange it was to hear his dad make light of something that was causing him a lot of stress because of all the public attention.
Harry Clung to Hope That Diana Had Faked Her Death to Return One Day
Prince Harry shares a poignant part of his grief in his book, revealing how he coped with Princess Diana’s death. Rather than accepting her passing, Harry held onto the idea that she had faked her death and would one day come back. This belief wasn’t about denial but a young boy’s hope amidst unbearable loss.
He describes the depth of his pain, not as a belief in the reality of her absence, but as a resistance to accepting it fully. For years, he awaited a call, a sign that would end the nightmare and bring his mother back, showcasing the profound impact her loss had on him from a very young age.
He Even Investigated Diana’s Tragic End
Struggling to come to terms with his mother’s death, Prince Harry took a deeply personal step to understand the tragedy that took Princess Diana. He asked his private secretary to obtain the official files related to her accident. Although some of the more disturbing images were withheld, Harry sought to piece together the events that led to her untimely demise.
Further seeking understanding, Harry visited the very site of the accident in Paris, retracing the path of Diana’s last moments by driving through the tunnel. His attempt to physically connect with the incident highlighted his need for closure, finding the actual “bump” in the tunnel anticlimactically minor, a stark contrast to the magnitude of his loss.
Meghan Excluded Her Niece from Wedding on Palace Advice
Despite the complexities in Meghan Markle’s family, her bond with her nieces remained unaffected, except for a notable instance at her royal wedding. The palace recommended Meghan not to invite her niece, Ashleigh Hale, primarily due to the public criticisms from Meghan’s half-sister, Ashleigh’s mother.
Ashleigh expressed sadness over missing the wedding, attributing the strain to her biological mother’s actions. Yet, this setback didn’t end Meghan and Ashleigh’s relationship. They have since worked past the issue, reestablishing their connection and moving forward from the incident.
The Couple Believes Their Rising Fame Unsettled the Royal Family
Harry and Meghan observed early on that their growing popularity was causing tension within the royal family. According to their friend, Lucy Fraser, the couple’s trip to Australia was a clear indication of their widespread appeal, which seemingly posed a challenge to the royal establishment.
Following a Buckingham Palace event where the royal family gathered, it was Meghan who dominated the headlines, overshadowing other family members. This incident, among others, led the couple to feel that their popularity was perceived as a threat. Meghan also reflected on the impact of public perception, realizing the serious influence of tabloid narratives after a direct encounter with a critical comment about her family relations.
The Duke Endures Frostbite in the Last Place Any Man Would Want It
Before his brother’s wedding, Harry faced an unexpected challenge after a 13-day trek to the North Pole with veterans. He was alarmed to find that, along with his ears and cheeks, a more sensitive area had also suffered frostbite, causing him considerable concern.
Despite the initial shock, Harry sought medical advice, where he was reassured that there would be no lasting damage. The doctor’s comforting words assured him everything would remain intact and he would recover fully from the frostbite’s chilling effects.
King Charles Revealed His Mother’s Death to Him Without Offering a Hug
Breaking the news of a loved one’s death is profoundly difficult, and doing so to a child is even more heart-wrenching. In his memoir, Harry recounts the moment his father informed him of his mother’s death, noting the absence of physical affection during the exchange. Harry felt a change in his father’s demeanor, marked by repeated tender terms and a soft, shocked voice.
Charles gently broke the news of Diana’s injuries and subsequent death, using the term “darling boy” to address Harry. Despite the lack of a comforting embrace, Harry interprets this as a reflection of the challenging circumstances, rather than a lack of care.
Harry Was Advised Against Bringing Meghan to the Queen’s Deathbed
In his book, Harry shares a poignant moment related to his grandmother’s passing. He recalls receiving a call from his father, informing him of the Queen’s critical condition and urging him to come to Balmoral immediately. However, Charles specifically requested Harry to come alone, a suggestion that initially upset Harry.
Charles explained his request by stating he wished to keep the number of attendees minimal, noting that other spouses, including Kate, would not be present either. Upon landing in Scotland, Harry learned it was too late; the Queen had already passed away. Arriving at the estate and entering her bedroom, he shared a private moment, expressing his hopes for her peace and reunion with his grandfather.
Meghan Attributes Rift With Her Father to Media Interference
Meghan points to media involvement as the catalyst for the deteriorating relationship with her father. Their bond was strong until he started giving interviews and speaking out against the royal family. In an attempt to address the situation, Meghan sought advice from the late queen, which led to her decision to pen a letter to her father.
She emphasizes the efforts she made to ensure the letter reached her dad privately, but despite her intentions, the media obtained and publicized it, further straining their relationship.
The Prince Battled Panic Attacks During Public Speeches
Despite his royal status, Harry experienced significant anxiety over public speaking, sharing that the prospect often left him nearly fainting on stage. He recalls moments when his brother, William, would lightheartedly tease him about his nervousness, saying “Harold! Look at you!”, “You’re drenched.”
Harry doesn’t hold any resentment towards his brother for these comments, even though they were both advocates for mental health awareness at the time. He acknowledges that neither fully understood the nature of his panic attacks during those moments.
Meghan Suggests Therapy to Harry After a Heated Moment
Harry opens up about his struggle with anger in his book, recounting a specific occasion when he lost his temper with Meghan. He attributes this outburst to the cumulative stress of dealing with the media, which led him to react poorly during an unexpected shift in their conversation. Meghan, in response, firmly stated she would not tolerate being spoken to in such a manner again.
Following this incident, Meghan inquired if Harry had ever considered therapy. Despite his previous attempts and failure to connect with a therapist, she encouraged him to seek help once more.
Meghan and Friend Allege Palace PR Team Made Her a Scapegoat
Meghan and her close friend Lucy Fraser suggest in a documentary that the Palace may have deliberately targeted Meghan to deflect media attention from other royal family members. According to Fraser, the Palace’s PR team would release misleading stories about Meghan to the press whenever another family member was in the spotlight, effectively using her as a distraction.
Meghan observed this pattern herself, noting how stories about her would suddenly emerge whenever there was negative press about another family member, seemingly to shift the public’s focus. This strategy, as she describes, reveals a calculated effort to manage the royal family’s image at her expense.
Harry Recounts a Heated Argument Over His Departure from the Royal Family
Harry shares a pivotal moment when he discussed his plans to step back from royal duties and relocate to the U.S. with William, Charles, and the late Queen. During the conversation, William reportedly raised his voice, indicating the high tension of the meeting. Harry had hoped for a compromise that would allow him to fulfill some royal responsibilities while pursuing independent work, but this idea was quickly dismissed.
The discussion became intensely emotional for Harry, especially facing his brother’s anger, his father’s accusations, and the Queen’s silent observation. This family confrontation left a lasting impression on him, highlighting the deep rifts that his departure would cause within the royal family.
Harry Felt Uncomfortable Watching Meghan’s Intimate Scenes on Suits
Initially, Harry believed that Meghan would blend seamlessly into the family, especially after discovering William and Kate’s enthusiasm for Suits, the show Meghan starred in. He humorously noted the irony of worrying that his brother and sister-in-law might be more interested in Meghan’s autograph than in her integration into the royal fold.
Reflecting on the past, Harry admits his discomfort with some of Meghan’s more intimate scenes in Suits, particularly those with co-star Patrick J. Adams. He expresses a preference for having avoided those moments, emphasizing his unease with witnessing such personal portrayals on screen.
Harry Reflects on His Relationship with Chelsy Davy
Harry fondly recalls the early stages of his romance with Chelsy Davy, highlighting her genuine demeanor as a key attraction. He appreciated that she did not seem overly eager for royal life upon their first meeting. Their relationship began romantically under the stars in Botswana, marking a memorable start to their connection.
Despite the eventual end to their romantic involvement, Harry and Chelsy maintained a strong friendship, evidenced by her attendance at his wedding to Meghan Markle in 2018. Their relationship’s evolution from romance to friendship showcases the enduring bond they shared beyond their breakup.
Harry Nearly Missed Joining the Funeral Procession for Princess Diana
In his memoir, Harry reveals that the memorable procession behind Princess Diana’s coffin, which he, his brother, and their family participated in, was close to happening without him. Concerns about his age and the potential stress of the event led to discussions about excluding the youngest prince. However, the decision was ultimately made for Harry to join, aligning with his own wishes.
Harry expressed a strong desire to support his brother William during such a difficult time, insisting that he couldn’t let him face the ordeal alone. He believed William would have done the same for him, highlighting the close bond between the brothers even in the face of profound grief.
Harry Initially Avoided Discussing Their Mother’s Death with William
Facing the immense pain of their mother’s death, Harry found it difficult to open up, even to his brother William. In his reflections, Harry acknowledges his reluctance to engage in conversations about their loss, despite William’s attempts to broach the subject during their youth. This avoidance led to William’s visible frustration, which Harry admits he either ignored or failed to recognize.
In hindsight, Harry expresses regret for his emotional unavailability, attributing it not to a deliberate choice but to an incapacity to confront his feelings at the time. He admits to not being ready to face the reality of their loss, highlighting the complexity of grief and the challenges it posed to his relationship with his brother.
Harry Experienced a Sense of Exclusion Following His Brother’s Wedding
Harry’s reflections on William’s wedding reveal a mix of nostalgia and a sense of being sidelined, particularly since he was not his brother’s best man. He reminisces about their shared experiences, viewing the wedding as a turning point in their relationship. Harry fondly recalls adventures in Lesotho and their close bond during flight training, lamenting that such moments would never occur again. He attributes this change to life’s inevitable progression.
Moreover, Harry’s candid thoughts about the wedding venue, the same place where their mother’s funeral was held, showcases his ability to find humor in even the most poignant circumstances. This comment underlines the complex emotions surrounding family milestones and the bittersweet nature of moving forward.
Tyler Perry Opened His $18 Million Home to Harry and Meghan
In 2020, amidst the media frenzy following their departure from the royal family, Tyler Perry extended a private invitation to Harry and Meghan to stay at his Los Angeles mansion. Perry shared in a documentary that his empathy stemmed from witnessing his own mother’s abuse, recognizing similar signs of distress in the couple’s situation.
Perry praised Harry and Meghan’s courage to leave the royal family, admiring their readiness to forsake palace life for personal well-being, despite the uncertainty of their financial future. His support highlighted his respect for their decision to prioritize their safety and happiness over royal obligations.
Harry Reflects on His Final Call with Princess Diana
In his memoir, Harry recounts the last conversation he had with his mother, Princess Diana, just hours before her tragic death. He remembers being abrupt, eager to return to playing his games, and cutting the call short. This moment haunts him, as he wishes he had taken the time to apologize for his impatience.
Harry expresses deep regret for not conveying his love during their final conversation, a sentiment that would take him years to fully articulate. This reflection underscores the profound impact of their last exchange and his enduring struggle to come to terms with his loss.
The Duke Reflects on His Response to Meghan’s Mental Health Crisis
Meghan shared her struggles with mental health due to the pressures of royal life and media scrutiny in their documentary, revealing it led her to contemplate suicide. Harry admits that upon hearing her distress, his reaction was less compassionate than it should have been, overly concerned about potential media fallout.
Expressing regret, Harry acknowledges his failure to adequately support Meghan during her time of need, feeling both angry and ashamed. He distinguishes his reaction as one influenced by his role within the institution, rather than as a supportive husband, recognizing his shortcomings in addressing her mental health struggles.
Harry Accuses the Palace of “Gaslighting” Following Oprah Interview
Harry’s dissatisfaction with the Palace’s response to his and Meghan’s 2021 interview with Oprah Winfrey was profound, describing it as “institutional gaslighting.” He viewed the interview as a pivotal moment for him and Meghan, aiming to clarify their reasons for leaving the royal family. Meghan, too, expressed her intent behind the interview was to shed light on their departure, suggesting a misunderstanding on the public’s part.
Reflecting on the Palace’s reaction, Harry empathized with his mother’s past experiences, feeling isolated and misunderstood. The term “institutional gaslighting” highlights his perception of the Palace’s efforts to undermine their experiences and the reality of their situation, underscoring the challenges they faced within the royal institution.
Meghan’s Struggle to Integrate into the Royal Family
In a revealing documentary, Meghan shares her earnest efforts to assimilate with the royal family, highlighting the challenges she faced. One poignant moment she recounts is when a crew member, in a gesture of gratitude, knelt and thanked her for her sacrifices for the U.K., marking a significant instance where she felt her efforts were acknowledged.
Further into the documentary, Meghan describes a touching scene upon her departure from the U.K., where, overwhelmed with emotions, she wept in the embrace of a security team member. She confided in him about her exhaustive attempts to belong, to which he compassionately responded, recognizing and affirming her endeavours.
William Advised Harry to Proceed Cautiously with Meghan
Prince Harry shares in his revelations that his brother, William, suggested he slow down his relationship with Meghan before proposing. Harry interpreted William’s reference to Meghan as an “American actress” with a tone of skepticism, akin to saying “convicted felon,” which he found offensive. Despite the cautionary advice, Harry and Meghan moved forward with their marriage plans.
William also recommended against holding the wedding in highly symbolic venues like St. Paul’s Cathedral or Westminster Abbey, the former being the site of Princess Diana and Charles’s wedding. Such counsel from a brother is not uncommon, aiming to ensure careful consideration before making significant life decisions.
A Tense Meeting During Prince Philip’s Funeral
At Prince Philip’s funeral in 2021, Harry sought a meeting with William and Charles, leading to a heartfelt yet intense conversation. Charles implored his sons not to add to his woes in his later years. Harry explained that misunderstandings about his departure were partly his fault for not seeking help, but he also pointed out the removal of his security by the family.
William’s response indicated that the decision came from their grandmother, urging Harry to discuss it with her. The situation escalated when William, in a moment of frustration and concern, physically gestured to emphasize his point, expressing a deep desire for Harry’s happiness and invoking their mother’s memory as a testament to his sincerity.
Confronting Racism in UK Media Coverage of Meghan
Meghan, who grew up in California, was used to tough situations, but the UK newspapers were a new challenge for her. She didn’t think the negative stories about her were because she was mixed race. However, when she saw headlines that seemed to make fun of her background, it was hard for her to ignore the racism.
Meghan’s mom has said she believes Meghan was treated unfairly because of her race. Harry also mentioned that the Royal Family did not speak up about the racism Meghan faced, which made things even harder.
Harry Mingles with Hollywood Stars
Harry, being married to Meghan Markle, a former actress, has naturally crossed paths with many celebrities. It’s a bit of a shift from his royal duties to think of him at Hollywood gatherings, especially since he’s shared his fondness for shows like Friends. In an amusing anecdote, he recalls visiting Courtney Cox’s house in 2016 and meeting an individual he refers to as “Batman,” a nod to the mystery guest’s voice role in a popular film.
This “Batman” is widely believed to be Will Arnett, known for voicing the character in The Lego Batman Movie. Arnett himself has confirmed that he and Prince Harry have met, adding a layer of celebrity connection to Harry’s interesting circle of acquaintances.
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